Posted by LittleGirlLost on November 5, 2004, at 11:29:22
In reply to Meaningless Musing on my Therapist, posted by Miss Honeychurch on November 4, 2004, at 15:48:47
> I suppose if I am truly truly honest, I want him to be my father.
I think you should tell him this. I sort of told mine (in writing, of course) and it was embarrassing, but she said it was brave of me. She handled it well; then again, she seems to love working with transference.
> Will I get over this? I've been on the verge of tears all afternoon Do I make some proclamation in therapy that I love him? Will that make me feel better?
I know exactly how you feel. I suffer the same way after seeing my T. I'd be too embarrassed to tell my T that I love her, but I wish I could. Growing up, we just didn't say "those" things, so for me, as hard as it is to say something bad, it's probably harder to say something good! I dunno.... I still struggle with this.
LGL
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