Posted by cubic_me on October 20, 2004, at 16:13:16
In reply to Re: Want to ask for a hug, posted by Joslynn on October 20, 2004, at 15:52:24
Like the post above says, different T's have different policies on hugs and contact, so if she says no, it is unlikely to be a reflection on you.
I know it might seem scary and uncomfortable, but if you ask and she says no - what have you lost? It might bring up some important things to discuss. You could even bring it up as a topic of discussion, rather than a direct 'can I hug you' question. Perhaps by saying that you have been feeling more secure in your relationship recently and it keeps crossing your mind that you would like to hug her - or something similar.
Good luck, I'm sure you'll get loads of good advice
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