Posted by alexandra_k on August 31, 2004, at 19:58:59
In reply to Male or female -- does it matter?, posted by Aphrodite on August 30, 2004, at 18:01:56
Personally, I prefer to work with males myself. I think it is because I prefer the falling in love kind of transference over the I hate your guts kind of transference. One could consider an Oedipus complex, but I think it is more to do with my mother being my primary abuser, and my father being distant and avoidant so that I kind of longed for him and wished I could be closer.
I know it is just transference, (just, ha!) but it is still nicer to love (even if it is not real) than to hate and feel angry. That is just my personal preference though.
I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE ASKED YOU ABOUT A BOOB JOB!!! OMG, how on earth did you react? My jaw would have dropped indeed!
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