Posted by lucy stone on August 27, 2004, at 13:01:51
In reply to Complimenting T/getting compliments from T, posted by tinydancer on August 27, 2004, at 11:53:22
I have on occasion complimented my Ts clothing or told him he looks nice. I have also told him that he is an attractive man, which he is, but not swoonably attractive. He has never, every, complimented me unless I asked him directly.."Do you like my new haircut, T?".."Yes, it looks very nice." I don't think I want him to compliment, it would be a boundadry crossing and would make me uncomfortable. I am in analysis and lie on a couch, I wouldn't want to think that my T is looking at me in anything by a professional way.
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