Posted by lucy stone on May 29, 2004, at 17:00:57
In reply to Re: Maybe I can post this part » lucy stone, posted by Dinah on May 29, 2004, at 13:39:18
I don't think I'll cut back at this point. The reason would be 90% financial and 10% because of the difficulties it causes in my work schedule. I think I has been good for me to go as often as I do. I am also majorly dependent on him so cutting back would be very difficult emotionally. He won't be very much help in making the decision because he wants me to do these things for myself. About the hair...he would never, never, ever, not in a million years make a suggestion like that to me. For him it would be stepping outside his analyst role which he never does. We could talk about my hair and he would answer me honestly if I asked his opinion on it, but he would never volunteer an opinion. I totally understand about the weight, BTW. I struggle with the same issue and know I won't really feel good about myself until I adress it. One thing my analysis has done is stop a 20 year history of bullimia so I definately have food issues. I'm over the bullimia, though, so that much is good : )
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