Posted by DaisyM on April 2, 2004, at 18:39:32
In reply to No where to go from here (rambling), posted by mair on April 2, 2004, at 16:43:43
If it is "no big deal" then you have to ask yourself why you can't tell someone you have been working with for such a long time. Especially since she is required to keep it private.
That said, I totally know about giving away certain secret parts of yourself. There are things I will never tell, even though I've talked about some really ugly stuff.
But leaving therapy before you are ready doesn't sound like a wise idea. Is there anyway you can work it through?
You might also ask her if this has hurt her feelings in someway, or called into question for her your view as to her competency as your Therapist. Maybe that is why she can't seem to leave it alone.
You must feel really sad right now...I'm sorry for that. Just remember that no decision is irreversible and you do have a chance to work it.
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