Posted by Karen_kay on March 31, 2004, at 13:38:45
In reply to Re: therapist cookies, posted by Joslynn on March 31, 2004, at 13:03:39
And your miraculous existence! And your beautiful writing as well. I wouldn't call again, but oly because I'd feel like "Well, I can take a hint, I get it already." But, please don't think that you aren't noticed. That does make my heart hurt. And when you are gone for periods of time, you are noticed as well. (PS. I'm not just saying that because I think it's what you want or need to hear, and I understand this is a frustrating situation, as I've been in it many times with Bubba before. I talked to him about not returning my phone calls when I needed him to and after that, he now returns my phone calls within the hour. Funny, but since that talk, I only call him to reschedule. Too little too late? Or perhaps I'm a little better? I like to think I'm better! Maybe if you call him and talk to him about how important it is to have him return your phone calls in a prompt fashion, it will help you both out. It's not being demanding, it's being assertive. And it really puts your mind at ease. I know it did in my case. I was afraid I was being needy in that case, but I found out he was making assumptions, as well as an a$$ out of himself! And I just love it when Bubba makes an a$$ out of himself! Why not call once more, jsut to tell him the importance of getting back to his clients? Not only are you helping yourself, but also those other clients who are wondering the exact same thing you are....... Just my few pennies in the bucket of thoughts here.. And what great thoughts they are... And those darn cookies...Drats! I've since made him brownies and muffins, even after he told me not to. Who says you have to listen to them? He had juice ready, because he knew I'd bring them. Bubba knows me, and now returns my calls!)
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