Posted by fallsfall on February 19, 2004, at 18:45:54
In reply to Fighting to relationship, posted by Dinah on February 19, 2004, at 13:48:00
My usual advice is to stick it out and work it out with your therapist. But I left mine (and you were in favor of that, if I recall) - and it was a good move. There is no one answer that will fit all.
I guess what struck me most about your post was that it sounded to me like the relationship you have with your therapist is like the relationship that good married couples have. Where things aren't always good, and both people are decidedly individuals, but that they are committed to working out the differences that come up. I would have really liked to have the kind of security you have with your therapist with my husband.
I think that one thing that led me to decide to leave my old therapist was that it felt like I was doing all the work - both mine and hers. That's what happened in my marriage, too. Hmmm.
Hmmm........
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