Posted by alexandra_k on February 1, 2004, at 4:09:18
In reply to Re: Asking T if he has sexual fantasies about you, posted by Racer on January 31, 2004, at 12:39:30
Yeah, I think I agree with Racer's first post... There are different kinds of 'fantasy'...
Also what was your T supposed to say:OPTION ONE: 'no'. In which case you think he is a liar and get mad at him. Also you feel none to good about yourself.
OPTION TWO: 'yes'. You are happy and trust him more (given the way you feel about this issue).
I think that it was good that he explored why it was important to you a bit. I would be interested to know more about that part of the conversation (though maybe I am being just too nosey..). In any case it seemed to help you rather than harm you that he said what he did and so it was probably a good thing that he said what he did in your case.
I am not meaning to suggest that he lied - I think you would have probably been able to tell if he had. But what KIND of sexual fantasies did he have (I find myself wondering...). Perhaps I am being a party killer again (sigh) but I wonder how 'yes' helps the issue????
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