Posted by Miss Honeychurch on January 31, 2004, at 17:11:45
In reply to Re: Asking T if he has sexual fantasies about you pt2 » Dinah, posted by gardenergirl on January 31, 2004, at 16:14:56
I'm all for the don't ask don't tell policy. However, men are men, and they think about sex a lot. And in my opinion, they think about having sex with every woman they encounter (although my husband denies this, I totally don't believe him). Am I wrong about this?? Gentlemen, if this is wrong, please let me know!
So I just assume my T has had at least one sexual thought about me. It's natural.
However, if he admitted to it, I would run from the room screaming, joining Dinah at 31 Flavors, and commence to eat several brownie sundaes, followed by Manhattans at the Applebees next door. If I KNEW for a fact that he fantasized about me, it would always make me question exactly what was going on in therpay. PArt of me would think he might be intentionally keeping me there to satisfy his needs. And if I found out he DIDN'T fantasize about me, that would be an ego bruiser, something I don't need right now.
Dinah, do you like Manhattans?
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