Posted by DaisyM on January 15, 2004, at 23:21:21
In reply to Re: Ranting and Ranting and Ranting, Oh My!, posted by fallsfall on January 15, 2004, at 21:44:04
Sounds like a rough one, but maybe productive. You obviously let him know how you felt and he obviously heard you and was concerned. This is important, even if you both continue to disagree. I'm glad he called you. How do you feel about him right now?
I agree. We don't live in a vacuum. We are all moving targets. That is why we all strive to learn our "triggers". If I have a fight with my husband, I'm a different person the next morning than if I found out I secured a huge grant. Consider this: you talk in therapy about something you would like to change. You and he brainstorm, come up with a plan. You put that plan into action. It works, or it doesn't...but still you are not the same you before this experience.
I get what he is saying. But, I disagree that you can't sort out your own opinions to bring to therapy.
I still think it is great that he called you. I hope you will call him if you need him.
We're here for you too...
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