Posted by gardenergirl on January 14, 2004, at 20:10:24
In reply to Re: Ranting and Ranting and Ranting, Oh My! » fallsfall, posted by Dinah on January 14, 2004, at 19:05:19
My own two cents is this: Perhaps your T feels insecure, that you might learn something that suggests he is not as effective as he wishes to be?? Or that you are using this site to just complain, which he would rather hear from you and process?? But that is not what mainly happens here, so I think his response is due to his own *stuff*. I find this site to be incredibly supportive, and I'm a newbie!
From the other chair, as a T trainee, I have to admit, I would be anxious about what my client was saying about me outside of therapy. I would be worried that they are quite dissatisfied or thought I was wasting their time, and I would really like to hear that from them if that is true. That way, I can do something to better meet their needs. So in my case, I am definitely insecure at times when I think about my clients' reactions they might not be sharing with me.
I guess my thoughts are very colored by my dual status, and my own *stuff* Oh well, can't help that! :)
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