Posted by Speaker on December 19, 2003, at 20:25:21
In reply to Re: I'm angry just thinking about YOU! » Speaker, posted by DaisyM on December 19, 2003, at 17:24:51
DaisyM,
I remember when my husband was terminally ill and trying to juggle things...ikkk! One of the things that helped the most was talking with my husband and asking him what would be the best thing to do. He was very selfless (yes, he was a man :) and he always wanted to keep our lives as normal as possible. He always encouraged me to go to things without him...he said it made him feel better knowing the kids weren't missing out because of him. It was hard at times and people couldn't do anything right...if they asked about him I really didn't want to talk and if they didn't ask I would think they didn't care. It is a very difficult task you have. I use to say if there were three of me there would be enough to go around. Fortunately, you have sought counsel...I didn't go for any help until a year after my husbands death. I hope you will be able to enjoy some of your weekend no matter what you decide to do. Remember- take care of you!
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