Posted by Karen_kay on November 25, 2003, at 18:34:22
In reply to Jealousy in Psychotherapy, posted by Miss Honeychurch on November 25, 2003, at 14:26:39
Hey, if it were me, I would say something about it. But, then again I'm all about avoiding my real issues and bringing up minor annoinances. Now, I'm not down-playing your gripe, don't get me wrong. But, I could make a whole session (and have in fact) out of what you just described. And, just a tip hun, to get a physical compliment, try wearing something low-cut. It will at least start a discussion, if nothing else. And tell him he looks good today. That always starts a discussion with my therapist. :)
But, then again, he likes to talk about himself.
But, something else you may want to think about...
why does it bother you that he said that about her? Are you jealous that he doesn't say it about you? Or that he finds a "floozy" attractive? If I were in your shoes, I'd say something... most definitely.... Come to think of it, my shrink didn't tell me I looked beautiful today.. :(
Hmmmmmm.......
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