Posted by shar on July 28, 2005, at 0:51:00
In reply to Re: There's only one way to fix that problem, posted by Dinah on July 23, 2005, at 15:42:46
OK, I'd like to know,
1) how someone falls asleep
2) how come we can't have our own rooms????
Having one bedroom for a couple is relatively recent (not to mention just one BED), phenomenon-wise, so, if you got the room...why not???
I made it VERY clear to my Sweetie that I had MY room (and he has HIS) and we have a joint room together. So...
I think it is an unhealthy preoccupation to 'settle' for 'one bedroom.' My Sweetie snores terribly, and I have no desire to not sleep (IF I can get to sleep!). And, the same goes for him! (OK, I don't think I snore...but, if he wants alone time or whatever.)
And, often, if I'm just worn out or worn down, or whatever...I sleep in 'my' room. What's the crime in that??
I would recommend EVERY woman (and, maybe every man) read Virginia Woolf's "A Room of One's Own" because it reaches to the heart of the issue.
Or, maybe for some, not. However, I still think every person should have 'a room of one's own.' Even if it is an awful mess like mine is!
xoxo
Shar
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