Posted by chujoe on June 28, 2010, at 7:48:01
In reply to Re: helping this site run smoothly, posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2010, at 1:45:57
>> ... Interacting with others may be frustrating, staying civil may be a challenge, and new skills may be required. They can help others develop those skills. <<
Community members may also decide that they do not want to participate in the Mr. Rogersifcation of the site. Actually, I agree that a site like this needs moderation -- of a sort that fosters an ethos of responsibility. Anyway, there is just a hint, in the language quoted above, of the sort of infantilization I'm concerned about, not that I have a solution. I guess, if pressed, I'd suggest just dropping the language that asks others to help an offending poster rephrase, replacing it with a suggestion that the poster review the site guidelines. That way, the community could join in if they wish, but without the whole "Now, children, can we show Johnny how we behave at Psychobabble..." attitude. [I exaggerate for emphasis & clarity.] You say above that that it's your job to check bullies, so check them. Recruiting others to "rephrase" and reeducate has a slightly Maoist tang about it. [Again, I exaggerate for emphasis & clarity.]
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