Posted by Kath on August 8, 2009, at 21:12:34
In reply to Re: make change » Kath, posted by SLS on August 8, 2009, at 19:38:15
> > I think this is my last try....
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> > Once again, this isn't about how I (Kath) feel.
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> > How about "I've often felt frustrated about privacy issues. Privacy is really important to me."
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> Well-crafted.
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> :-)
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> - Scott~ ~ Thanks Scott. It seems to me that if a person wanted to get the fact that they felt privacy didn't seem to be given as much priority as they wished it would here at PB - It seems to me that it might not be possible to say that in any way that would be acceptable.
And I sort of don't understand why. The way that makes me feel reminds me of the earlier days in my marriage, when I'd try to talk with my husband about something & it just would NOT work out - I remember feeling really like a big metal door clanged down between us & I would think, "OK. Fine. I guess I just can't be heard about this. Oh well. I feel less close & I feel a sense of aloneness in this relationship, when I'd hoped to be able to share honestly about how I felt. Oh well. Whatever."
Things don't feel like that now in my marriage, thank God. But I DO remember how it felt. And it didn't feel nice. I don't find it a nice feeling to not be able to be honest & open about how I feel.
Kath
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