Posted by alexandra_k on July 17, 2009, at 7:53:30
In reply to Re: make change » Dr. Bob, posted by muffled on July 16, 2009, at 8:59:26
> "Maybe this is predictable, but since you've accepted that what you can change about me and the rules is limited, are there other things you can change?"
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> You act like you are open to change, like you want babblers to be more involved in the change....but like you say, it would seem real change on this site is limited.
> I understand you are trying to change behaviours, but we are humans, not a herd of sheep. I thot his was a place for support, not a place to be forced into rigid set of behaviours. Not a p[lace where you get punished in a very hurtful way for what is IMO minor infractions...
> OK I shut up...no use :(
> So, I don't know what else I could change but myself, my behaviours and responses. But I am satisfied for the most part w/my posting behaviours (of course there is alway room for improvement...)
> I am (for the most part) satisfied w/how other posters handle their posting, and how they handle conflict.
> I am NOT satisfied with how Bob, the Administrator and Owner of this site does things.
> You come barging in, when it suits you and start throwing around rules and blocks and generally getting things all stirred up....then you dissapear....you get....too busy.
> I cannot change you Bob, I cannot convince you to ease up on things. So I'm not going to spend alot of time saying much more.
> I found some wonderful people here, and I really do miss them. But the way this place is run is just too hard for me.
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> So I dunno what I can do but leave, or as I do, pop in from time to time. I cannot be more involved, though I would be willing to be, but not how it stands now. And things don't change...
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> I see no other options.
> This does not mean I do not like you personally Bob, I don't know you.
> But I do not like how you run this site.
> Myeah. i basically feel the same way.
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