Posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 22:42:48
In reply to Re: This has gotten to the point where policing needed » Phillipa, posted by Amelia_in_StPaul on June 19, 2009, at 15:52:33
Amelia,
I think that perhaps the problem is no matter how someone tries not to come across strong the written word only goes so far to convey how a person does or doesn't feel. And I tried to gently state while I realized in your post you were not trying to offend your post did offend me. I don't often get offended. And I rarely respond. I am for the most a lurker. I am for the most part very disconnected. So for me to get involved it has to really get to me. I only tell you this because no matter your intentions remember perception is in the hands of the reader and it is hard sometimes here with the civility guidelines to truly try and discuss how someone feels.
Now I for one would welcome an intelluctual discussion on why you don't like psychoan therapy but I am afraid for the purposes of this site it would not fair well. Because we would have to word our post just so and then the intellectual discussion would suffer so why go through that.
Personally I don't care the method of therapy as long as I get my stinking parts more blended and life can be smooth. I don't care the method as long as I can feel more like fitting in with the world versus sitting on the sidelines. But that is me.
Not so much the process but the outcome. In any case, don't sweat it. Because these kinds of situations at Babble can become deal breakers.
and babblemail might be a better option like Phillipa suggested.
Well later gator and I hope things get better for you.
Even though my p-doc is a shrink (a term of endearment) he says he uses multiple methods.
rsk
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