Posted by special_k on April 12, 2006, at 18:35:50
In reply to Re: the blocking policies » special_k, posted by gabbi~1 on April 12, 2006, at 12:24:15
Ouch.
When I said I knew I was provokative (mostly over on politics) I was talking about pushing hard on political isses... Like about my belief that everyone has a right to life and their basic needs being met etc.
> >> IMO other people need to learn to handle their own responses. i'm not attacking accusing putting down (to the best of my knowledge).
And I'm not.
> You just said you were sometimes provocative,
Provoking people to THINK
> you also said that sometimes it's difficult for people when they are going through psychiatric difficulties, I would assume that includes "handling ones own responses"
Of course. But one is still responsible for ones own responses...
> How could you know why some people are hurt by what you say or do? Why do you think it's up to you to decide whether or not they are justified.
It isn't about whether they are justified or not (I personally think ALL emotional responses are justified).
I'm just trying to get at the point that if someone can come along to admin and say WAH! Someone posted this to me and I'm so upset and thereby get them blocked... Well... If you like that way of doing things you might like to play at psychcentral. You might be pleased to know they delete around half of my posts because the topics are considered unsuitable...
> I've seen you post about being hurt by things.
> Next time maybe I'll push your buttons about them and then when you're at your most upset, I'll tell you that, well, I was just being provocative, I admit it, then I'll tell you that I think you should learn how to handle your response.You do that Gabbi.
But I'll request you never post to me again.
There is indeed such a thing as being sensitive
Hence
PBSDo you really think I exhibit insensitivity in the way I talk to pepole?
I know someitmes I get carried away... But if they explain that to me then i backtrack - don't I? I apologise when other peoples feelings are hurt (even if i dont see that i've done anything wrong - ie if they have MISINTERPRETED what i said) i'm still sorry they are hurting.
don't i????
WTF
I don't know where this is coming from...
i don't wanna play here anymore :-(
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