Re: Indirect messages » tabitha

Posted by Dinah on June 30, 2004, at 0:12:11

In reply to Re: Indirect messages, posted by tabitha on June 29, 2004, at 23:42:21

But...
If I were to name myself Flame, and enter a website proclaiming that I had been attacked at other websites for saying XXXXX, and took the time to look up a subject that I had absolutely no familiarity with but that another poster had expressed vulnerability to, I don't think that bewilderment would be my first response at posters' anger or expressed hurt to my saying XXXXX, YYYYYY, or even ZZZZZ. And even if I were bewildered or surprised, I'd kind of catch on when a whole lot of posters register pain at my words.
Perhaps without a lot of therapy those things aren't intuitively obvious, but I dunno....
Or maybe I'm just a cynic.
It really is kind of you to look at it that way, though, Tabitha. I admire that in you.

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you've got to be kidding me, Dr. Bob crushedout 6/28/04
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Alrighty, then!! Shar 6/28/04
Re: Alrighty, then!! shadows721 6/29/04
Re: I thought I said others have said... blah blah » crushedout gardenergirl 6/29/04
Re: Ok. I get the civility guideline in effect now. » Dinah gardenergirl 6/29/04
Re: Ok. I get the civility guideline in effect now. » gardenergirl Dinah 6/29/04
Re: Alrighty, then!! » shadows721 Dinah 6/29/04
Indirect messages are as hurtful to me. shadows721 6/29/04
Re: Indirect messages are as hurtful to me. » shadows721 Dinah 6/29/04
Re: I thought I said others have said... blah blah » gardenergirl crushedout 6/29/04
Re: I thought I said others have said... blah blah shadows721 6/29/04
Re: Indirect messages tabitha 6/29/04
Re: you are very kind (nm) » tabitha Dinah 6/29/04
Re: Indirect messages » tabitha Dinah 6/30/04
Re: Indirect messages shadows721 6/30/04
Re: My own attempt at a kind interpretation Dinah 6/30/04
Re: you've got to be kidding me Dr. Bob 6/30/04
{{{SMACK}}} That's a big kiss for you (nm) » Shar Racer 6/30/04
Re: Indirect messages » Dinah tabitha 6/30/04
Re: kind » Dinah tabitha 6/30/04
Re: kind » tabitha Dinah 6/30/04
Re: Indirect messages shadows721 6/30/04
fires is Dr. Bob crushedout 6/30/04
((Shadows fell out chair!!)):0 Someone get shadows721 6/30/04
Re: ((Shadows fell out chair!!)):0 Someone get » shadows721 partlycloudy 6/30/04
Re: ((Shadows fell out chair!!)):0 Someone get gabbix2 6/30/04
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Thanks :) » tabitha Dinah 7/1/04

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