Posted by flame on April 15, 2006, at 7:18:06
In reply to Re: Husband Giving Up ..., posted by john berk on April 14, 2006, at 22:26:23
Hi John,
You know, we used to "social" drink with absolutely no problelms. My husband did not feel the need to sit down at the bar every night. (At least I did not see that.)It was not until he was on the Effexor for about six months, that this changed. He goes to the bar 5/6 nights out of the week. And, as I mentioned in a previous post, it is NOT just 3 or 4 beers. It is probably over 10 beers and always a couple of shots to wind the night up.
It is *very* frustrating for me, as I know I have no control over this.
..So is it going to take me leaving him for things to change? When I say change, I know that would be for me only. I cannot expect anything from my husband. Would it be worth it for me, to not have to live with these frustrations day after day? (Just doing a little personal ranting here...)
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