Posted by HappyGirl on April 17, 2006, at 23:10:43
In reply to Re: Husband Giving Up ..., posted by flame on April 17, 2006, at 7:42:30
Hi flame:
It's SO hard to understand your feelings towards your husband. However, I DO know very well from reading your response to mine shows you are still in love with your husband.Loving someone like your husband might be NOT easy for anyone, but in your case, it has something to do. Probably, you and your husband has a strong bondage that is more than a man and wife's relationship.
In my suggestion, ... if you're in that situation/feelings, then try to accept him without any judgemental remarks/comments. Because, your husband has already 'self-esteem' problem due to his mental ill. If you'd say about his incompetency, you'd send him in a wrong direction. He needs a verbal encouragement from you, although you've been providing him with financial aspects.
Also, I, too agree with you as to counselling to get a proper guidance. There are a lot of professional folks, but you need to find a right one who understands your situation well.
H.G.
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