Posted by jupiter on June 20, 2000, at 9:03:48
In reply to Night Moves Into Sadness and Pain, posted by jupiter on June 19, 2000, at 22:59:01
Hi all: thank you for the responses. Its morning now but still not feeling any better. Husband got up and went to work without saying a word to me. It's just that we keep going through this. I'm ok for a while with the sex but then for no apparent reason I just shut down. I feel good and want him to touch me and we have good sex but only for a while, it never lasts much more than a month at a time sometimes less but the frigidity lasts for months and sometimes years. I know it upsets him but all he says is he understands and he'll be patient but that makes it worse you know? I don't work so he is the one who pays the bills and does the yard work and drives me around and buys the groceries etc. I feel so so awful when I can't give him the one thing he wants, love. What's wrong with me?
P.S. Is it possible that meds kind of become inactive for a while and then kick back in again in the cycle of depression?
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