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Posted by harry b. on February 11, 2000, at 20:55:38
Hello,
Oddly, this board has become a daily must read. Anyway,
I made it into work again, 2 days in a row! I saw my
psychologist today, went thru my crisis with him, told
him about my suicide ideation, was chastised for not
telling him about it when I called him Monday. He
also advised me to contact my friend, to try to talk
about our friendship with him. I can't do that right now,
much as I'd like to, because further rejection would
definitely push me over the edge. I'll wait. Maybe he'll
call me one day.I made an appointment with a psychiatrist for next Monday
to get a better opinion on what meds I should be taking,
I don't like my family doc's approach to it.Really going to push the envelope this weekend. A club
I belong to, but which I haven't participated in for
several years, is having a banquet Saturday evening. I
had not planned to go, but I decided today to go to it.
Maybe I can get my mind off my troubles for awhile.
There is another banquet, work related, on Sunday. I
had not planned to go to that either but I put myself
on the list today. 2 banquets in 2 days, whew. Maybe
I'm fooling myself and they will both be disastrous,
and I'll end up sitting alone at a table and crying,
but I will try. Will let you know how I make out.Noa, I read your post, sorry you are feeling so low.
I'm not in a position to offer advise on meds but I
wish you the best.
Posted by Cindy W on February 11, 2000, at 22:20:14
In reply to Daily Report, posted by harry b. on February 11, 2000, at 20:55:38
> Hello,
> Oddly, this board has become a daily must read. Anyway,
> I made it into work again, 2 days in a row! I saw my
> psychologist today, went thru my crisis with him, told
> him about my suicide ideation, was chastised for not
> telling him about it when I called him Monday. He
> also advised me to contact my friend, to try to talk
> about our friendship with him. I can't do that right now,
> much as I'd like to, because further rejection would
> definitely push me over the edge. I'll wait. Maybe he'll
> call me one day.
>
> I made an appointment with a psychiatrist for next Monday
> to get a better opinion on what meds I should be taking,
> I don't like my family doc's approach to it.
>
> Really going to push the envelope this weekend. A club
> I belong to, but which I haven't participated in for
> several years, is having a banquet Saturday evening. I
> had not planned to go, but I decided today to go to it.
> Maybe I can get my mind off my troubles for awhile.
> There is another banquet, work related, on Sunday. I
> had not planned to go to that either but I put myself
> on the list today. 2 banquets in 2 days, whew. Maybe
> I'm fooling myself and they will both be disastrous,
> and I'll end up sitting alone at a table and crying,
> but I will try. Will let you know how I make out.
>
> Noa, I read your post, sorry you are feeling so low.
> I'm not in a position to offer advise on meds but I
> wish you the best.
>
harry b, glad to hear you're doing things to get better! Hope your pdoc is able to help with a good medication. Glad to hear you're going to keep active this weekend. More hugs and kisses!--Cindy W
>
Posted by Renee N on February 12, 2000, at 1:39:57
In reply to Daily Report, posted by harry b. on February 11, 2000, at 20:55:38
> Hello,
> Oddly, this board has become a daily must read.Odd? Not in my book. I think it took me about five minutes here the first time to become addicted! It is so much better than others I've tried. Much more intelligence and compassion here.
Anyway,
> I made it into work again, 2 days in a row!Way to go, Buddy!
I saw my
> psychologist today, went thru my crisis with him, told
> him about my suicide ideation,Good move.
was chastised for not
> telling him about it when I called him Monday. He
> also advised me to contact my friend, to try to talk
> about our friendship with him. I can't do that right now,
> much as I'd like to, because further rejection would
> definitely push me over the edge. I'll wait. Maybe he'll
> call me one day.
>That would be great. Don't miss potential friends out there while waiting for that call...
> I made an appointment with a psychiatrist for next Monday
> to get a better opinion on what meds I should be taking,
Best of luck with the meds. You will find relief eventually(wish I could promise "soon").> I don't like my family doc's approach to it.
>
> Really going to push the envelope this weekend. A club
> I belong to, but which I haven't participated in for
> several years, is having a banquet Saturday evening. I
> had not planned to go, but I decided today to go to it.
> Maybe I can get my mind off my troubles for awhile.
> There is another banquet, work related, on Sunday. I
> had not planned to go to that either but I put myself
> on the list today. 2 banquets in 2 days, whew. Maybe
> I'm fooling myself and they will both be disastrous,
> and I'll end up sitting alone at a table and crying,
> but I will try. Will let you know how I make out.
>This is so cool. I hope your bold efforts will inspire me to make some efforts to reach out socially. Please tell me what happens. Lie if you have to so you don't scare me from doing something rather than continue sitting around moping because I have no friends. Just kidding! Tell us whatever really happens and how you feel about it. I'll keep my fingers crossed that you enjoy yourself. Your friend, Renee N
> Noa, I read your post, sorry you are feeling so low.
> I'm not in a position to offer advise on meds but I
> wish you the best.
>
>
>
Posted by Phil on February 12, 2000, at 8:06:00
In reply to Re: Daily Report, posted by Renee N on February 12, 2000, at 1:39:57
harry b,
Good for you for attempting to get the social life in gear. Let us know how it goes.
Phil
Posted by CG on February 12, 2000, at 10:57:30
In reply to Re: Daily Report, posted by Phil on February 12, 2000, at 8:06:00
Harry, Good for you! Keep up the good work. Stay involved. Yes, easier than it sounds. Vegging out is way too easy. I went to a very sad funeral this past week. Very sad circumstances. But just being with other people at the church, cemetery, and family gathering afterwards was helpful for me. I need to make definite steps to stay involved with the world more. Hoping the best for you!!! CG
Posted by Carolyn on February 12, 2000, at 11:27:47
In reply to Daily Report, posted by harry b. on February 11, 2000, at 20:55:38
> Hello,
> Oddly, this board has become a daily must read. Anyway,
> I made it into work again, 2 days in a row! I saw my
> psychologist today, went thru my crisis with him, told
> him about my suicide ideation, was chastised for not
> telling him about it when I called him Monday. He
> also advised me to contact my friend, to try to talk
> about our friendship with him. I can't do that right now,
> much as I'd like to, because further rejection would
> definitely push me over the edge. I'll wait. Maybe he'll
> call me one day.
>
> I made an appointment with a psychiatrist for next Monday
> to get a better opinion on what meds I should be taking,
> I don't like my family doc's approach to it.
>
> Really going to push the envelope this weekend. A club
> I belong to, but which I haven't participated in for
> several years, is having a banquet Saturday evening. I
> had not planned to go, but I decided today to go to it.
> Maybe I can get my mind off my troubles for awhile.
> There is another banquet, work related, on Sunday. I
> had not planned to go to that either but I put myself
> on the list today. 2 banquets in 2 days, whew. Maybe
> I'm fooling myself and they will both be disastrous,
> and I'll end up sitting alone at a table and crying,
> but I will try. Will let you know how I make out.
>
> Noa, I read your post, sorry you are feeling so low.
> I'm not in a position to offer advise on meds but I
> wish you the best.
>
>
>I too had a depression related to feelings of abandonment by a friend. A therapist advised me to write out a script for a conversation with that person, including responses to any response she might have, and then call. It worked! She actually came to visit me in the hospital (a true act of courage for anyone who's never been there!). We are still friendly...not best buddies, as I have trust issues still unresolved. But it is better than hurting in silence. I have come to see that much of our difficulties were due to depression messing with my mind, and not her fault. I'd suggest you try...maybe on a day when you are feeling fairly strong. Also maybe with someone else with you, who can help you deal with any feelings of rejection. Good luck and God bless you!
Posted by Noa on February 12, 2000, at 15:00:26
In reply to Re: Daily Report, posted by Carolyn on February 12, 2000, at 11:27:47
Harry, good for you. Thanks for the support. Keep us posted.
Posted by Cass on February 13, 2000, at 15:00:56
In reply to Daily Report, posted by harry b. on February 11, 2000, at 20:55:38
Wow, Harry! I really think you are doing the right thing by putting yourself "out there." It's so easy to hide yourself away when feeling rejected and depressed, but you're not doing that! Congrats on your courage.
Posted by harry b. on February 13, 2000, at 17:40:06
In reply to Re: Daily Report, posted by Cass on February 13, 2000, at 15:00:56
> Wow, Harry! I really think you are doing the right thing by putting yourself "out there." It's so easy to hide yourself away when feeling rejected and depressed, but you're not doing that! Congrats on your courage.
Cass,
It was good in concept. I went to the banquet last
night. I have a pilot's license and have belonged
to this aviators club for years. I haven't been able to get
a medical due to the depression and meds. I can
still fly, but I have to have another pilot, acting
as pilot-in-command with me. I've kind of lost
interest in flying, though it used to be my
passion.Anyway, the banquet last night was good. I had a
good time, saw people that I haven't seen in years.
Lots of handshaking, pecks on the cheek, and good-
to-see-ya's. The food was good too, authentic
Italian and I ate TOO much.I did not attend the other banquet today. Today was a
stay-in-bed day, and a crying day.I curse myself for being so emotional and weak
willed. I should be proud of myself for going last
night, but somehow it's not in me today.Thank you for your concern
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