Posted by zenhussy on October 12, 2006, at 0:59:32
In reply to Re:, posted by llrrrpp on September 12, 2006, at 10:02:45
hmmmmm
if one says something enough does that make it true?
if one refuses to accept reality does that make their denial a new reality?
if one is so ill as to not be able to follow a course of treatment does that mean they're beyond hope?
if one freely gives away their power does that make them weak?
if one continues to lash out at the shadows instead of the light does that make them lost?
if one could answer any of these then one wouldn't need to post such things....
but then again we're not one so we are limited in how we relate to those who are
again we ask one to rethink what they're doing and why and then really really think whether or not this will help or if they're continuing on with old patterns, acting out old scenarios, living in the past while screaming they're here and now in the present.
learning to transform from victim to survivor takes a shift in thinking and a change in acceptance.
some will struggle and overcome
some will fall far short and give up
those who keep working on changing their ways of expression, their ways of relating, their ways of being in this world with others are the ones who can make that transformation
and when one is able to transform and grow then all things are possible
but then again one has to work, try, attempt, do, be, act, etc.
years of available work sit unused, dusty and sadly ignored when they contain many keys to unopened doors
please keep looking for the key(s) so that one doesn't have to keep trying to steal others keys or bust the lock which ends up harming more than helping
poster:zenhussy
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