Posted by Lindenblüte on September 25, 2006, at 17:34:49
In reply to Re: Which Came First? » Lindenblüte, posted by curtm on September 25, 2006, at 14:09:43
> > The chicken, or the egg?
>
> It has to be the CHICKEN because the EGG couldn't cross the road. Think about it.Hmm, eggsalad point, however, I was definitely an egg before I was a chicken.
> > Why "My"?
>
> Did you take it? Was it given to you? or was it always yours from the beginning? You choose what to do with it. For whatever reason, it WAS "yours." But, you have shared it with us and therefore it has become "ours."I'm not sure why it's mine. I guess because I'm ready to take control over fixing it, and part of fixing it, or dealing with it, or learning to live with it, or leaving it in the dust or whatever, is deciding that it belongs to me, and is under my control. maybe I didn't want it. but it's there, and it's not going away on its own.
well, since I have told people, they can help me too. just by listening, or taking away some of my self-doubts, or by telling me that that particular "issue" is not really pathological, or whatnot.
thanks curt. you're the best
-Li
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