Posted by Lindenblüte on September 21, 2006, at 16:27:07
In reply to Re: Which Came First? » Lindenblüte, posted by ClearSkies on September 19, 2006, at 21:42:04
> Please exuse me if I'm talking out of turn, I don't mean to insult or hurt.
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> It's important to you to know which came first... and that used to bother me, distress me so much. When did my bad stuff start? What triggered what? Whatever happened in the past, I can't change. I can't do "if only"s because that makes it worse, and my head just refuses to go there.
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> When I turn my attention to my feelings, the end result of what has happened, whenever it happened, it's no longer important to me to put it all in the right sequence. Coming to terms with the emotions that the experiences evoke is what has helped me.CS- no need to apologize. I'm glad you told me your perspective. Thanks for responding to my little list. My mind is tangled. I don't know if there is any end to the string, or if it's an endless loop, or if there are many loops? loose ends?
((((Clearskies))))
I've got some of your weather with me today.
tempest in my heart, but Clearskies in my window.
-Li
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