Posted by sunny10 on May 12, 2005, at 9:32:35
In reply to Re: of course » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on May 12, 2005, at 1:20:32
so sorry about the funding... I must have missed that in my own state of confusion... sorry to hear that!
Yes, I absolutely agree that we push people away because we fear that we are unloveable and want to avoid feeling abandoned again.
A vicious thing to do to ourselves- especially since it really doesn't matter who does the "leaving"; it all feels like abandonment anyway.....
I can honestly say that I've done that before...and, no, wasn't intuitive enough to realize I'd done it without the therapist's help while unravelling the story...
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