Posted by Damos on May 11, 2005, at 22:18:33
In reply to sadness, posted by alexandra_k on May 9, 2005, at 5:00:08
Something has been bothering since I read this - I mean apart form all the stuff that's usually bothering me.
Does the fact that I feel no love for myself combined with my belief that I am unable to truly love or be loved actually lead me to unconsiously drive people away, because deep down I believe they will leave me anyway because of these feelings and beliefs.
There is enough discomfort here for me to know there is some truth in it. Do I hurt myself now, to hurt myself less later, and by doing so simply reinforce my image and belief about myself? Hmmm
poster:Damos
thread:495447
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