Posted by Damos on April 28, 2005, at 17:51:27
In reply to Re: We are afraid, posted by AdaGrace on April 28, 2005, at 7:57:53
Grace I read this yesterday, does it ring true for you.
Molly's Losses:
"The second is the end of a love relationship with a man who I trusted totally. We had been together for a long time, and he always told me that I was the love of his life. When he split up with me, I had no idea it was coming. I lost him, but I also lost something bigger: I lost my sense of hope and a belief in love. I also lost the capacity to trust. This is a lot to lose. I sometimes feel that since he was the person who took away that trust, he is the only person who can give it back, which I know is foolish, but that's often how I feel."
If you want me to climb down into the abyss and drag you out kicking and screaming that's what I'll do, because we're not going to give you up without a fight because we love and care about you more than you know. And whether you believe it or not you are so much more than your pain, so very much more. I don't have any easy answers for you but am willing to walk beside you down the road to finding them - okay, and Sunny will be there too to keep us on the straight and narrow. But you need to start by loosening your attachment to your loss and we can do that together and there's a whole army of babblers who'll help.
((((((((((AdaGrace))))))))))
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