Posted by sunny10 on April 28, 2005, at 11:50:29
In reply to Re: We are afraid, posted by AdaGrace on April 28, 2005, at 7:57:53
I know how that feels, Gracie.
I went back for more many times and destroyed my soul completely. Truthfully, I am still recovering. But I forced myself to begin recovering and remind myself that everything he said to me was lies. He was the bad person; not me.
You are not an object. You are not a toy. You are a beautiful soul who needs to focus on herself right now.
I think that some of the links that Damos gave you will allow you to re-center yourself and regain some of the control that you've lost over your feelings for this man.
Your well-being is important.
The only thing you should allow yourself to be afraid of at this point is sliding deeper into that abyss. Damos and I are holding the ropes, but you need to put hand over hand to pull yourself up by those ropes, okay?!?
We love you and are worried about you.
please...
sunny10
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