Posted by Navneeta on November 12, 2003, at 4:58:54
In reply to New to this and that, posted by Porter on November 10, 2003, at 17:02:22
what i can infer from your email is that, you have tried n number of times to quit, but dont seem to refrain for a long time.
Well, what i can say is, all you have to understand is, drinking dosent take you anywhere.social drinking or drinking in moderation is fine. but in your case, drinking in moderation wont help much becuase it will drag you to the point where you dont want to go. So, the thing you should realise is, i have family, people love me and i want to have a lovely life with them for the rest of my life. Show yourself a "carrot". maybe a "great husband/wife" or a "beautiful child" or a "great job" or " a great friend".Tell yourself , that you have to reach this goal. and to reach this goal,drinking is a hurdle and you have to overcome it.
Try it.Good luck. navneeta
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