Posted by baseball55 on April 12, 2015, at 19:45:02
In reply to Re: procrastinator, posted by rjlockhart37 on April 11, 2015, at 17:39:51
> bb55 did give a viewpoint, and it's not only on dr-bob, family members, friends, have all had simmilar reponses to me asking for help or advice, and i waste their time......
Well people get exasperated when someone asks for help or advice and then ignores any help or advice given and/or gets defensive and starts explaining why the help/advice won't, in fact help.
Let me give you some examples, RJ, from over the years.
(1) You complain that something is wrong with your body and it won't absorb drugs and that you need some sort of test of absorption, etc. I and others say it doesn't work that way. If you weren't absorbing drugs, you wouldn't be absorbing nutrients either and, unless you're wasting away, you are absorbing nutrients, so you are absorbing drugs. You just aren't responding to them - welcome to the world of psych drugs.
Your response. Ignore posts and continue posting for months about your failure to "absorb" drugs.
(2) Constant complaints that your brain isn't "firing" properly, that you need ECT. I and others tell you that, if there were an electrical disturbance in your brain, you would be having seizures and that would show up on an EEG. Your response? Ignore all replies and continue posting about your brain's electrical problems and need for ECT for months.
(3) For years now, you have complained about your p-doc, who insists you take drugs that don't help you, who diagnoses you with illnesses you don't have, who refuses you stimulants to manage ADHD. People urge you to find another p-doc. Your response? Silence, mostly, with the occasional, and rare reply, about "someone" who won't let you change p-docs.
(4) And everyone knows that that someone is your mother. So I and others ask, why don't you move out? I mean, you're not 17 anymore. Your response? Mostly silence. An occasional, and rare, post about how you need to change your life.
(5) And in these posts, you spin thoughts about changes that are so large they sound completely unrealistic. I reply that maybe you should start small, with realistic, manageable goals. Your response? Silence.
I could go on, but I won't. I'm sorry if this offends or upsets you, RJ. But you need to take a look at yourself.
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