Posted by muffled on January 7, 2008, at 16:47:31
In reply to Re: (((((KK))))))) » karen_kay, posted by Jay_BrAvEsT_FaCe on January 7, 2008, at 16:26:05
You proly don't know me, but I read your stuff, and up this thread somewhere you referred to your self as whining etc. You are SO NOT.
This was a lovely thread.
It IS hard to find the right mate out there.
I know of some odd matches just with in my own extended family...but they do OK.
I ahve a family member who is kind and gorgeous, but hasn't had a 'date' per se yet. I think guys are scared of her....I dunno.
Jay, when I read your stuff you come across as really nice.
I don't think you need to 'dress yourself up' to get women. Be who you are. See if you can do things that interest you that might help you socialize and meet someone.
I am married, thank God, I HATED , 'the scene'. It IS hard out there. Thats why there's so many dating clubs etc.
Everybodys too busy these days, men and women.
I'm sure there is someone out there for you.
Just a matter of when. Next month, next year, 10 yrs from now. Whoever they are, it'll be wonderful and worth the wait!
Take good care.
M
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