Posted by Fivefires on August 3, 2007, at 0:18:12
In reply to Goal: to set + hold firm healthy boundaries.., posted by Kath on August 2, 2007, at 22:03:27
If his addiction is very bad, he needs someone to love him, one person to love him and not desert him.
In 'my experience' turning your back only makes a person feel more alone and need more of a drug to make them feel whole.
RU in a position of losing your home, inability to pay bills, and buy food, because of his usage?
My mother told me she wouldn't help me financially because she didn't have it to give. But then I found out she's gambling all the time, and she's bought another house (She has 4 or 5 of them now.), has land, has a business, and ...
she would not put the ring my father left me on her homeowner's policy for '$40 a year'. I asked her because I can't afford renter's insurance. I live on $900month, alone, and now abandoned.
The abandonment has made me search my soul but I am feeling so ill.
I pray to God my fam' doesn't know who I am because if they see this it's I'll prob' be disinherited.
BTW, anyone here an attorney?
I'm sorry to have strayed Kath.
My mother and fam let go. I'm suffering so badly. I reached for them and they pushed me backwards, turned around, and walked away from me.
This is why I've been so physically and emotionally sick lately.
I will still babble you tomorrow.
5f
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