Posted by Kath on January 31, 2007, at 21:37:10
In reply to Re: Does it never end?? Son confided in me today., posted by Declan on January 31, 2007, at 17:45:57
Thx Declan,
I just hope that either he can convince her to tell me, or I can simply tell her that I'm really concerned.
I wonder how to talk with her about it without letting her know I know.
You know, at the airport when I saw her, I got a kick-in-the-stomach feeling & I guess a sort of instantaneous flash through my mind that she looked like she was doing heroin. I now remember that she was really hot & had her coat off & a tank top on & I actually looked on her arms for track marks (I think you call them). Then I SHOVED it out of my mind.
Maybe I could tell her that....that I love her & was really shocked at the airport & concerned & tell her what I thought & tell her how much I care about her.
The main thing I'm scared of is that she'll go back there. She had said that she would & my son says that she thinks the 2 guys who moved into the apartment are her BEST friends. My son said that 'meth fiends' don't care about anyone else.
Declan - maybe I could mention how she looks etc & say that I know she's been through a lot & that it's pretty obvious that she's been doing things that are hard on her body & that I'll support her in figuring out how to take better care of herself?
I don't know.
Any thoughts are welcome.
Kath
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