Posted by TexasChic on November 25, 2006, at 13:11:10
In reply to Re: I'm really upset, posted by Deneb on November 24, 2006, at 23:57:12
I care about you Deneb. I also can completely understand every one of those things you wrote. I've felt them all too. I know what its like to be so consumed with what everyone else thinks of you. I'm working on that myself. One thing that's occured to me lately is, why do 'I' have to change? I'm not saying I shouldn't work on improving myself. I just mean if someone can't accept me and my super emotional self, maybe that's THEIR problem and not mine! Everytime I get upset and emotional and someone tells me I'm being immature or crazy or a drama queen, I've always just took it for granted that they were right. But now I'm starting to think, what I feel is what I feel, and if they can't handle that, maybe THEY'RE the ones that need to work on themselves, because Lord know's I spend enough time working on me! And its the same with you Deneb! You're here, and you're making an effort to improve yourself. That's more than most people out there. What right do they have to judge us and find us wanting??? They're just as messed up as everyone else. Hang in there girl.
-T
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