Posted by Deneb on June 25, 2006, at 18:51:33
In reply to Re: I got labelled as a troll :-( *trigger* » Deneb, posted by llrrrpp on June 25, 2006, at 18:13:04
I don't know how much I hurt people when I do certain things. I don't understand it and I don't realize it until they tell me. Even after they tell me I still don't realize the extent of their hurt. I forget about the hurt and continue, only to be told again that I'm upsetting people again.
Then I get upset myself, but it's mostly because I think other people are being mean to me by telling me I'm hurting others. I still don't get how hurt others are. I can think, "Yes, I get it," but I don't think I really truly *get* it.
All I seem to understand are my own hurts. :-(
I read that people with autism are able to learn and show empathy. That gives me some hope.
Deneb*
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