Posted by Tamar on August 7, 2005, at 16:49:59
In reply to sex, posted by crushedout on August 7, 2005, at 16:24:15
> I've been pretty asexual lately. (Maybe it's the meds, I dunno.) I want to be sexual but it just doesn't happen.Sometimes it’s just the illness.
> This woman I'm dating, though, kissed me on my arm the other night as we were walking down the street, and dear god, it turned me on. What is up with that?
Erm… an attractive woman touches your body with her warm lips, and you’re wondering why it turned you on? Maybe because you’re human?
> Is that normal? To be completely asexual and then have a person just show up and arouse that demon. I dunno.
I think that’s pretty normal. After all, you’re dating her; presumably there’s some sexual charge between you. If there were nothing sexual in it, wouldn’t you just be friends?
I felt pretty asexual for a while (some months ago) and when it came back it seemed much more intense and powerful than usual. I found it quite daunting; sometimes I was afraid to leave the house in case I propositioned the first person I saw! However, it all settled down eventually.
> Sometimes I wish there was a sexuality board but then we'd probably get a ton of perverts here so I guess it's just as well.
Hah! The pervert’s here already (speaking of myself of course). *wicked grin*
Tamar
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