Posted by Shortelise on December 3, 2004, at 15:58:54
In reply to What's it really like having a significant other?, posted by Angela2 on December 1, 2004, at 18:50:14
Angela, what a good question.
I have been married for 24 years to a man who was my good friend. I never loved having sex with him, butI have always loved him. In fact, I have never much liked sex with him at all. He loved having sex with me. I have had some wonderful sexual relationships in my life, just not with my husband.
There have been times when I have really regretted marrying a man with whom I have no passion. I have had affairs to satisfy my sexuality.
If I could have married someone who was my best friend and also had a great sexual relationship, that would have been perfect. But it didn't happen, and I wanted to be with this man, because I do love him.
WOuld I do differently if I had to to do over again? I don't know.ShortE
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