Posted by Angela2 on December 1, 2004, at 18:50:14
For all you babblers out there who have been with someone for a long time span, what does it feel like to have a signif. other? I ask because I'm in this situation where I could be going out with someone great. It's just that there's no passion. I like him and I am comfortable around him. I even want to kiss him sometimes. I'm just not like head over heels in love want to melt, have sex all day kind of feeling. Is it OK to still go out with this guy? I really need to know what you all think. All the guys I have met and have been head over heels for the relationship didn't work out. It was like, all about sex. And they tried to change me. I like this guy cuz he likes me the way I am. We are also really good at communicating. I know it should be obvious that I should just go out with him but part of me liked the way things were before. I was alone. Solitary. Peaceful. Secure. Now that he's in my life, that has changed. Am I just acting on my parents wishes and my therapist's wishes that I have a boyfriend? Or do I really want one? I think this realtionship of ours is going to be moving very slowly. I'd still like to know what you babblers think though.
Peace,-Angela
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