Posted by smokeymadison on December 2, 2004, at 17:03:36
In reply to What's it really like having a significant other?, posted by Angela2 on December 1, 2004, at 18:50:14
hi,
i have been with my guy for over a year now. we are getting married next Sept. when i met him, all i really wanted was sex, basically, and i didn't really care for him at all. i expected that he would stick around for a while until he got creeped out and then he would leave. not so. i couldn't get rid of him. tried to break up twice, but i was living with him and i couldn't stand him dating other people. it took six months for me to start to feel like i really loved him. then it just hit me, all the passion and everything.basically, what i am saying is that sometimes the relationship doesn't start out all fireworks and passionate love. and it never feels that way all the time. i would say that it feels that way about 30% of the time if you are lucky. ten percent of the time i dislike him. the rest is smooth sailing.
anyway, i tend to think more with my head than my heart. i am not a romantic by any means. i am a better person with him. end of story. good luck!
SM
poster:smokeymadison
thread:423054
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20041202/msgs/423470.html