Posted by Fallen4MyT on November 24, 2004, at 23:45:20
In reply to Re: How aweful is this? or...is it? HELP PLS » Fallen4MyT, posted by Susan47 on November 24, 2004, at 23:34:11
Thanks Susan and that is part of the problem I just cannot seem to do anything right ...I am damned if I do, and damned if I don't..I do not want to go but if I don't his folks will be sad and he will too but then the flip side is...what about ME? And why can't he say I am sick and go himself? I am always going and doing for even people who would not do the same for me and it's driving me nuts or nuttier lately :) Really, I have a hard time with this and cannot seem to balance it or do it right and I am sick of living for others but when I live for me I feel guilty..How do people stop that I wonder
> How can you .... without hurting people? Because as long as we're alive most of us will be hurting someone, it's not because of anything we necessarily did though, it's just a fact of life. You can't control anyone else's pain.
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