Posted by TexasChic on August 18, 2004, at 10:49:31
In reply to Re: Freaking out » TexasChic, posted by AuntieMel on August 18, 2004, at 10:20:56
Thanks Mel. You could be right about it being a personal problem, but I'm just not sure. And yeah, my therapist does have much more of a background on S then I've written here.
I have done everything humanly possible to try to get S just to talk with me about this, but she refuses. So there is nothing for me to do but move on.
In retrospect, I can see how controlling she is, and how I have stayed upset ever since we've become friends. My T pointed out how I've been feeling responsibe for all our problems, including this one (until now). Plus, now that I've thought about it and see her personality more clearly, I can see what a clash our personalities are. And I really don't think I could be friends with someone who has done what she's done to me. So I am remaining cordial, friendly even, and she's being grumpy and cranky.
They usually let people go at the end of the day, or sometimes the end of the week. So I won't feel any better about this until then. And then I still won't be comfortable. The change in attitude from my boss is really what worries me the most.
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