Posted by TexasChic on August 17, 2004, at 11:48:06
In reply to Re: stuff » JenStar, posted by TexasChic on August 17, 2004, at 7:54:53
Okay, now I'm pretty sure she's doing things to intentionally annoy me! I'm almost through with my work, and she gives me her pages to proof that we haven't gotten the picture or copy for yet. I asked her, "Are you planning on turning these in like this?" (Not sarcastically, I thought she may have wanted to show the boss what she's missing, although we don't usually do it that way). She shrugs and says, "I don't know". Anytime I ask a question, that's what she says now. I said, "Well, you have to know what you are going to do." She just shrugs again. Finally I just *stood up to her* and said, "I would really rather not do these until they're finished because I don't want to have to proof them twice". She just shrugged and said, "Its up to you", but I could tell she was really pissed. Oh, and to top it off, she's been playing solitare all day.
Its so hard! I want to stand up to her, but from past experience I know my boss will side with her regardless of the situation. So I try to just go with the flow and not cause any problems. So how do I do that and still stand up for myself???
I'm trying really hard not to let her get the better of me, but I really think she's intentionally trying to goad me. Either that or now that I'm aware of how controlling she is, I'm now noticing these things. Either way, I can't wait until I get another job!! I've just had enough of all this.
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