Posted by B2chica on July 23, 2004, at 15:10:40
In reply to Re: Crying at my desk...ok, BUT » B2chica, posted by TexasChic on July 23, 2004, at 14:21:23
>>I'm learning that I seem to navigate towards strong willed people. My T says I need to find more laid back people like me.
do kinda have to agree with your T. mostly cuz if you have a too strong a willed friend they may take advantage and start to order you around or talk you into things that you couldn't/wouldn't say no too. this could harm you.
but,
hehehe. ya, sorry bout that. i'm in my typical protective mode. i tend to get quite like a momma lion with people i care about. i'm all about the protector thing when i'm level.Believe me, i'm sure this is a major psychological 'issue' with me.
-even though i haven't gotten into this with my T, i know i act like that, sort of for myself. it's cuz that's what i've been looking for my whole life and never got so i became it- that protector figure. i think that's why i'm so in love with vincent d'nofrio (did i spell my love's name right?) he IS the perfect 'protector' he's everything i've been looking for my whole life. Careing, Passionate, Strong, Very intelligent, excellent word play, Gets the bad guy but good and has a look that would RIP an abuser to shreds and make them confess and apologize to it all in a heartbeat!!!! i would curl up on his lap and in his arms Anyday!
....smile...headtilt...daze...gleemy eyed...snap!
i'm sorry, what was i talking about?B2c.
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