Posted by B2chica on July 23, 2004, at 14:04:14
In reply to Crying at my desk, posted by TexasChic on July 23, 2004, at 12:43:23
first and foremost (((((((TexasChic)))))))
Ok, chica. i have to totally agree with kk about the forgiveness THAN permission thing. it's none of their business where your errand takes you anyway.
especially to "those" types of "friends".and that is NOT whiny or immature, you were hurt and upset by what happened.
that "stacy" sounds like someone i'd like to meet in dark ally. ;^)
'you want i should rough her upa bit?' sorry, couldn't resist saying that.Yes, please no non-violent lectures here. sometimes i just get really frustrated with people always treating others so poorly. why do some feel they Always need to put someone down, or make them feel less, or NIT-Pick on them???
and lets face it, what does "stacy" care if you ARE 4 hours late? will it effect HER job? will it harm her in any way?
i really do not like it when work people act like this. to me it says they don't have enough work to keep them busy, that they find it their job to nose into others lives.-so here's my solution. TexasChic you have a nice cry, but not too long. you are a bright, beautiful vibrant woman, that has charm and dignity of which NO ONE can take from you. You have compassion and understanding and patience with others. You have truly wonderful gifts that most people will never have. Also, you are sensitive to others, but not enough to yourself.
Be kind to yourself. hold your head up high, be proud of who you are...i am.
i am honored to know you. you have helped me many times and you always make me feel good. you warm my heart as i am sure you have done to many, many others both here and IRL.we love you, so who gives a rip about 'stacy who'?
if she act like that, then we should almost feel sad for her. she has the mentality of a 9th grader who will probably never change. she will never grow as a human being and what could be more sad. she will never grow in understanding, in compassion, in love, or in life.
YOU already have, in great strides i might add.remember...head held high.
I don't believe that one person is better or worse than others, but i do believe that you are much stronger than her. and you are certainly more virtuous.Love lots
B2c.
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