Posted by attoday on July 19, 2004, at 9:20:43
In reply to Re: what's the point? » attoday, posted by 64bowtie on July 19, 2004, at 3:33:34
Rod..
So I am to ask myself what are the "options" and "caring" of a particular problem or conflict?
I can kind of see where you are going with this.. to try and find a balance.. but I'm not certain.
Can you give an example?
Thanks
At Today> Try asking help from your T to find a balance between logic and feeling in problem solving and conflict resolution... My suggestion to my clients is to start carefully attaching "options" and "caring" to all decisions... The purpose is that this forces consideration of a balance of logic and feelings... A person can't use logic for "caring" nor feel "options"...
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> Trust that most folks don't see a need for even "caring", let alone "options"... If we wait for the masses to progress to adulthood behavior, we will continue to perform in mediocrity... Does that sound like something to aspire to? I am talking about "new stuff" that has historically always been here and very practical... Five generations ago, we seem to have forgotten to focus on maturity...
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> Try it... Others are grateful and succeeding... May not be large numbers yet, but they are out there...
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> Rod
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