Posted by partlycloudy on July 15, 2004, at 17:09:58
In reply to Deeprooted issues, posted by Jess24 on July 15, 2004, at 16:33:02
I am very sorry, but we were separated at birth. My personal take is that I pick up on subliminal signals: I'm attracted, I'm vulnerable; I have a history; I have strong opinions.
How about 20+ years of this? When I divorced my husband of 18 years, I was certain and happy that I might not have another life partner. When I met my husband (now we've been married 2 years); he seemed like TOTALLY not my type. He didn't seem concerned that I was screwed up, indeed insisted he was worse than I. (I have proved him wrong in that respect!!) But because he wasn't concerned, he didn't try to change me. Does that make sense? He thought that I was fine the way I was - even though I'm different now - so there was no controlling on his part at all.
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